Mental Health and Wellness

Back-to-School: Supporting Your Child's Social-Emotional Well-Being

As a new school year approaches, it's natural for children and teens to experience a mix of emotions. They may feel excited to see friends and teachers, while also feeling nervous about new routines, classrooms, academic expectations, or transitions. Taking time to prepare emotionally—as well as academically—can help students start the school year feeling confident, connected, and ready to learn.

Families play an important role in helping children navigate the transition back to school. Creating predictable routines, talking openly about feelings, practicing healthy habits, and staying connected with school staff can make a meaningful difference in a child's well-being.

Tips for a Positive Back-to-School Transition

  • Start routines early. Gradually adjust bedtimes, wake-up times, and daily schedules a week or two before school begins.
  • Talk about emotions. Encourage your child to share what they are looking forward to and what they may be worried about. Listen with empathy and reassure them that many students experience similar feelings.
  • Build confidence. Celebrate your child's strengths, remind them of past successes, and help them set realistic goals for the new school year.
  • Practice self-care. Healthy sleep, nutritious meals, regular physical activity, and time to relax all support emotional well-being and learning.
  • Reconnect socially. If possible, arrange opportunities for your child to spend time with friends or participate in school events before classes begin.
  • Stay connected with school. Attend orientation events, review school expectations together, and encourage your child to reach out to trusted adults if they need support.

Some back-to-school jitters are expected. However, if your child experiences persistent anxiety, sadness, changes in sleep or appetite, frequent headaches or stomachaches, or begins avoiding school, consider reaching out to your child's teacher, school counselor, school psychologist, or another trusted school staff member. Early support can make a positive difference.

Helpful Resources for Families

The following organizations offer trusted information, practical strategies, and family-friendly resources to support children's mental health and successful school transitions:

National Association of School Psychologists (NASP): Back-to-School Resources for Families

Child Mind Institute: Back-to-School Resources

American Academy of Pediatrics – HealthyChildren.org

American Psychological Association (APA): Parenting and Family Well-Being Resources

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC): Children's Mental Health

Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA)

A successful start to the school year is about more than school supplies and schedules. When students feel safe, supported, connected, and emotionally prepared, they are better equipped to learn, grow, and thrive. Working together, families and schools can help every child begin the year with confidence and optimism.

Parenting Resources

Positive Parenting, Thriving Kids is a free online resource from the Child Mind Institute that offers practical tools to help parents and caregivers build strong, supportive relationships with their children. Explore expert-backed strategies to promote emotional well-being and resilience.

Four Ways to Support Teens' Social Emotional Development
10 Ways Parents Can Bring Social-Emotional Learning Home

Talking to Kids about Sexting

Mindfulness

Belly Breathing for Kids

Belly Breathing Sesame Street

Just Breathe
Yoga class
6 Mindfulness Activities You Can Do As a Family 

(English) (Spanish) 7 Mindfulness Exercises for Kids and Families

(English) (Spanish) Mindfulness Exercises (English)

Guided Meditations - in English and Spanish Mindfulness for Teens

100 Free Social Emotional Learning Tools

Emotional Regulation

Red Light, Green Light (English) (Spanish)

Freeze Dance Game (English) (Spanish)

Feelings of Control (English)(Spanish)

Coping Skills Worksheet (English) (Spanish)
The Helpful Counselor - 18 coping skills & activities

Positive and Negative Self Talk 

Deep Breathing for Kids

Calming Anxiety - Coping SkillsGiant List of Regulating Activities for Children.pdf

Mental Health Resources

Parent Empowerment Program

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Social Emotional Support Form


If you are worried about a student’s social emotional well-being or mental health fill out this form and a referral will be sent to a school counselor or another staff member who will provide support for the student.  


Cara Messmore 
Executive Director of Student Support Services
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Prevention & Crisis Manager
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Foster/Homeless Liaison
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